More Deep Breathing

2023-01-31T20:38:58-06:00

The Breath is more than biology. It is an energetic and spiritual practice of returning to our Essence, the purest sense of our Self that transcends the mental and the physical and the emotional, that existed and continues to exist before and beyond our wounds. We mostly breathe above the neck: short, shallow, unconscious, survival-oriented [...]

More Deep Breathing2023-01-31T20:38:58-06:00

More Pausing

2023-01-31T15:10:20-06:00

What’s in a pause? A recognition. A refrain. A reset. An opportunity. The amygdala hijack happens at least daily. Since arriving in Barbados, perhaps multiple times a day. Having lost my father last May, I almost couldn’t handle the news that my mother had a stroke just over five months later. It was a relatively [...]

More Pausing2023-01-31T15:10:20-06:00

Living While White, Dying While Black

2022-05-15T20:39:20-05:00

For white people who need translation as you read the headlines from Buffalo yesterday: Lone wolf = white supremacy terrorist Mentally ill youth = white supremacy terrorist (white supremacy is not a mental illness) Random act of violence = white supremacy terrorism Unspeakable tragedy = white supremacy terrorism Buffalo shooter = white supremacy terrorist Killed [...]

Living While White, Dying While Black2022-05-15T20:39:20-05:00

We Will Not Let Hate Win

2022-05-15T19:58:09-05:00

Woke up this morning to the news of the mass shooting in Buffalo, NY and all I could do was cry as the weight of despair pressed down hard on my current grief. When Black people are killed like this, all of us Black people feel it viscerally. We collectively share the generational trauma from [...]

We Will Not Let Hate Win2022-05-15T19:58:09-05:00

Co-founder of Unity, Myrtle Fillmore, an Early Feminist

2022-03-13T12:49:05-05:00

In my lifetime the word “feminist” has taken on multiple meanings. Sometimes I’ve experienced the word and feminists themselves, as uplifting and empowering. Other times women have been labeled “feminist” in quite unsavory ways, assigned a derogatory meaning, what we might call today the “toxic masculine” embodiment. I’ve seen images, listened to songs, read essays [...]

Co-founder of Unity, Myrtle Fillmore, an Early Feminist2022-03-13T12:49:05-05:00

Growing and Loving Through Fear

2022-03-13T12:50:59-05:00

Contrary to popular belief, or intention, spiritual communities are ripe breeding grounds for fear. To borrow from Buddhist teacher and author Tara Brach, fear is the anticipation of future pain. The problem is we don’t always know when we’re being influenced by fear or what we’re even afraid of. Take last November’s local and state [...]

Growing and Loving Through Fear2022-03-13T12:50:59-05:00

Where Will You Stand

2022-03-13T12:51:11-05:00

Were he still alive, Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. would be celebrating his 93rd birthday on January 15th. The 3rd Monday of January is designated as a federal holiday in observance of King’s birthday. Although initially opposed, President Ronald Reagan eventually signed it into law in 1983, and the holiday was first observed in [...]

Where Will You Stand2022-03-13T12:51:11-05:00

“Apology Language” by Rev. Kelly

2022-02-07T18:05:17-06:00

Connecting moment: Recently I spoke with a beloved woman. I have known her for almost 25 years, yet 15 years ago we slowly drifted apart as sometimes happens when life is rearranged. Several years back we slowly reconnected on Facebook - a comment or like here and there - always in the energy of simply [...]

“Apology Language” by Rev. Kelly2022-02-07T18:05:17-06:00

“Eternal Reefs” by Rev. Kelly

2022-02-07T18:05:35-06:00

Connecting Moment There may be too many to pick from… how’s that for connecting? SO that’s my “Connecting Moment,” the moment I realized I had lots to choose from. Realizing the number of times I had a deep, felt sense of connection with a person, a song, earth, or my body, is uplifting [...]

“Eternal Reefs” by Rev. Kelly2022-02-07T18:05:35-06:00

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